marriage is start or end of a happy life????

10 years ago, there was a couple wanted to get married n before they can get married , they had to get the gal's parent permission.. so they were just like so loving n the guy seems like treating the gal quite good even he was not that rich n he was not highly educated. at last, they got married ..

after few years , they had 3 children n they lived in a simple life. but then they started to hav arguement between both of them.. n the husband's mother was a very troublesome woman that always make both of them fight. the husband's mother can purposely talk something bad to his son to make this husband n wife fought. n this husband will 100% believe his mom , then scolded his wife.. how can things happen like this??? n summore this wife do everything at home herself.. she cook, she clean the sholw house, she wash clothes, she help her husband to carry heavy things which the husband said he kenot carry so heavy thing ( do u think still got such man that still live in the world now?? ya.. that is one!!) she help her husband to climb up to the staircase to carry things down which her husband claimed that he kenot climb , she did everything at home but at the end the things that she got was get scolded by her husband even wif rude words, get kicked from the house , keep calling her as bitch at home even in front of their children ( i just cant imagine how can a man scold his wife wif rude words n didnt respect her at all but the wife still doing all these work for him ) there is a lot of bad n weird stody about this husband... for example, when his kid being very notti in shopping mall.. he will scold his kid very loudly in front of public n ask the kid to kneel on the floor n dun let him get up... even that was happen one time that this kid just maybe running around , then he ask the kid to kneel on the roadside although it was raining that time.. , another example, he ask his wife to buy something... n his wife bought back.. but he will keep complaining for the entired life... n started to scold his wife being so stupid n useless...( if he think his wife cant buy the correct thing he wan, y not he just go n buy himself??) , there was one time that his standard six son get sick, he scolded his wife for didnt take drinks for the son to drink but the wife always prepare the drinks for the son n put it on the table n also remind him to drink.. , this husband he dun let his wife to buy new clothes which claimed that is a waste of money even during chinese new year.. there was another time , his children was playing monopoli at home when they wanted to hav dinner but his children still keep playing... n he get very angry n he step on the monopoli n tear it into 2 pieces.. he always broke and throw things when he angry... n always scold his wife in front of the children even until today... this wife actually is my aunty n she always call home n cry ....... sometimes she drove back n cry in front of me also.... she feel so sad after her husband scolded her everytime... she feel so sad becoz she did so many things for him but he didnt appreciate her at all.. i just dun understand how can a man treat his wife so bad.. i think there is nobody else same like him anymore..!!!>............ (actually there is stil a lot of story about HIM that is really will make u get mad!!! but i cant tell all here becoz it might take whole life to tell u all....!!!

so how to find a partner that r really treat u good even now n future?? how to get a husband that really care for u ?? so gals... pls be careful when u r choosing a husband.... before n after married really can get totally different treatment..... good luck ya!!!